I know the tradition is for a guy to find a girl he likes and ask her out. Fine, I am not quarreling with that tradition but what if it is a girl who finds the guy attractive, what does she do? Pray for the guy to return her feelings? The truth is that you can actually do more than that. You can find a way to get the guy to ask you without it seeming obvious. And the guy would think it was all his idea.
1.Get Noticed
He cannot ask you out if he doesn’t know you exist. It is good to be casual, act as if you don’t care, but make sure that he notices you
2) Be Sexy and look good
People are attracted to people who are attractive, so please take care of your appearance. Looking good is very-very important. Get your hair done, work out, and maybe get your teeth whitened. When you feel good about yourself, people notice. Dress in what suits your body best.
3) Look Interested
When you have the chance to talk to him, appear interested whatever he is saying and pay compliments to him. Guys like to think you know and like what they are talking about. Common interests are a must for a relationship.
4) Be Flirty
Flirt with him. Give him signals that he interests you. Try and make maximum eye contact with him. Give him some flirty glances across the room, bar, office etc. look him in the eye and if he asks what? Just say it is nothing but your eyes are beautiful.
5) Make a common friend
Become friends with friend. His friend could be a way to communicate to your crush. He will also come in handy when you want additional information about your crush.
6) Make him jealous
Have fun with others guys and make sure he is watching you. talk or flirt with someone else when he is watching. Be sure not to overdo it. This is just a way to send him a small message that that you have other options.
7) Never be clingy
Value your independence. Don’t stalk him, it will only make him weary of you, this might build fear of you in him or you might come across as desperate to him.
Most importantly, you should not worry too much on how to get him to ask you out or love you. Don't think of drastically changing yourself to suit his likes and wants. He should like you the way you are. If he doesn't, just accept the fact that he is not the one for you. Love is not a one night affair. In the end all that matters is that you love yourself.
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