Tuesday 30 December 2014

LIFESTYLE

 1. Will power : why most of us break our resolution first week of the new year is because we don't have the will or the power to endure. Before we make a resolution we must ask ourselves why, why so we need to stop the habit, achieve the goal. Why is it important. We must give ourselves some incentive to motivate us. Like I am going to eat less exercise more so I can loose weight. The incentive could be because I want to be slim bride or I want to be able attract the kind of man I want.

2. One at a time: we fail most times because we make too many resolutions. Pick one thing and start with it. Pick the most important to you and start.

3. Make it simple : no matter how hard the habit is to break, you can achieve it if you make it simple. Instead of saying I will quit smoking by 2015, you can say I will smoke one stick a day or I will never buy a pack of cigarette to store again. This way before you know it you will quit entirely

4. Good mood: quiting a habit can put you in a bad or irritated mood, and if this is fought off you will break your resolution so to feel better. People eat more, drink more, smoke more when they in a bad mood or stressed out. So read books, watch your favorite shows, hangout with friends when you are less busy. Be careful of the places you go to hang out.

5. Don't beat up yourself: even if you fail. Don't beat up yourself and quit trying altogether. Instead look how long you have held out. The days, weeks or months you held on strong. Pat yourself in the back, pick yourself up and try again.

7 mind eye: create a picture of your end result in your mind and paste it there, dream about it, think about it, etc.   Or if you are trying to loose weight for instance, paste a picture of your dream self where you can see it often to motivate you. It could be on the fridge so when the craving comes, the thing you will see first is the picture before you sneak out a cookie.

8. Know your limit: know your limit. Don't over task your self. If you are trying to loose weight, don't starve or over do the exercise. If you do, you will get tired and irritated easily. You will start dreading gym. Easy does it.

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10 simple romance tips to melt her heart.
Most men think money and sex are what they need to keep their girl happy and interested. Hmm! No wonder there are so much cheatings, break ups and heart breaks.
Here are 10 tip to keep the woman of your dream in love with you always
1. HUG HER FROM BEHIND.
This is my favorite. Maybe she is in the kitchen cooking, or looking out of the balcony. Just tiptoe behind her and draw her to you nuzzle her neck and say words like 'couldn't resist doing this or you take my breathe away. Girls loves this, she will take time to savor the moment and then turn around for a heart wrenching kiss.
2. GIFTS: gifts are cool ways of showing your woman you love her. it doesn't matter if it is expensive or cheap, all that matters is the message behind the gift so you have to be careful. For example if you earn one million a month and you get her a techno of seven thousand, that is a romance killer but if you get her a silly crystal heart maybe for five thousand naira. She will wear it the rest of her life.
3.COMPLIMENTS: ladies love compliments at all times and in most thing, especially if it is coming from the man they love. Compliment her when she dresses up for you, when she cooks for you, when in bed with you before or after. Compliment her talents and skills. Use creative romantic words.
4. OUT OF THE BOX DATES: Going for dinner, movie, bar, lunch are OK but with time it gets boring. An evening walk while holding hands, camping just the two of you and nature. Movie night in your house, just you, her, the couch and television.   Watching the sun set or rise together and turning to each other while it happens and kiss deeply etc.
5.SURPRISES: women love romantic surprises a lot especially if our friends or colleagues are there to see and envy us. Send a basket of her favorite pastries to her work place with some romantic words telling her how you feel. It could be her favorite food or candy.
6 TINKER ABOUT IN HER HOUSE: When you visit her, it shouldn't just be for food and sex. Fix things in her house, leaky sinks, roofs, broken furniture. Don't worry she will reward you as you do this by giving you random kisses as you work, saying thank you, preparing your favorite meal.
7. Romantic getaways: a weekend at five star hotel, exotic places, a weekend of road trips with no particular destination in mind, sleeping in cheap hotels where night meets you, eating lots of junk, visiting remote towns and having fun.
8 Text messages etc: send her very romantic message expressing your feelings at the time. It doesn't matter if it is sexual, romantic, friendly etc just make it expressive, romantic  and elemental. Remember I love you never grows old. Say it to her every now and then.
9 SHOWING PEOPLE SHE IS YOURS: every girl love being held by her man, when you walk into room or just walking on the streets. When you Introduce her to your friends, what you call her matters. A friend, girl friend, love of your life. That is the moment she gets what she is to you. Using her picture or one of you both as your social media Profile picture. Saying how much you love her on your social media status etc.
10. TAKE HER SHOPPING : Another favorite of mine, and of all women. take her to a boutique let her model the clothes just for you. Compliment her and let her have some say in some of the clothes and stuffs she picks. You have to be careful so it doesn't seem as if you are making her choices for her. Strong and independent women hate that. Tell her she has an incredible body and everything fits her then let her know the  ones you find sexy and irresistible on her.

Try these and watch how your girl falls in love with you all over again.

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Monday 29 December 2014

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Have you been in that marriage or relationship for a while now and you are beginning to feel unpretty and unattractive? You are no longer the size 10/12 girl he used to know or you catch him looking at prettier, younger, slimmer or more ambitious women and that makes you feel old, ugly and fat? Here are 8 tips to help you feel attractive and keep his interest like forever.

1. BE CLEAN: so many women after being Married or being in a relationship for a while, begins to become too comfortable with their partner. They don't bath till night, some do in morning but don't at night. Some never remember to wash their hair. Some stop shaving even the most essential parts. Even the house is being neglected or the sheets on the bed yet you want that man to turn to you at night.  He won't and he would be too polite to tell you why. He will say he had long day and is very tired.
2. BE SEXY: Competition is tight, a lot of young girls outside understand this and you see them buy sexy under wears and lingeries while married ones don't get that no matter how long you are married you still in competition so they take it for granted that they already got the man and don't need to try. That maybe true until your partner meets one of them sexy younger girls. So wear sexy night gown, lace and silk underwear. Do your make up right even when you are at home, even when you don't plan to go anywhere wear beautiful n simple n sexy attires all day long. I promise he won't wait for the kids to go to bed. He would rush home every night. Be what your husband want in bed, and give him your full attention, not even your kids should come into your mind at this stage.  Remember there are girls outside who are more than willing to show him the latest when it comes to sex.
3. BE ROMANTIC: Romance comes natural to the woman than the men. So make use of this free gift from above. Take him out for a romantic dinner, when the children are in bed, sit out for a while, drink wine and make small talk. Just enjoy the stars, moon the fresh air and each other. Think of some romantic ways to melt his heart. Wink at him when your eyes meet even if your grown up children are there. Take long strolls. Be romantic!
4. BE FUN: The truth is that men never grow old. They still remember the fun you used to have when you started dating ages ago and still want it. No wonder they sneak around with girls your age when he first met you. Those young girls are fun. They go clubbing, they hang out at joints with them and to viewing centers. How many married women do you see in such places. Next to none but what about married men? They come with the single girls. Wise up ladies. Having fun must not include children. Most times family picnics with fussy and crying children bore and irritate men. So while you are planning family picnics and fun, plan for something only two of you can do.
5. BE CHEERFUL: why do most married women keep long faces. Things are hard, you are worried about finances etc. Your long face and sighing is enough to drive him to bars and into the hands of some woman. No matter how hard things get if your man is trying be that one source of happiness for him by keeping a cheerful face and attitude.
6. BE PEACEFUL: no matter how angry he made you or how trying your day has been. When you open the door for husband at the end of the day, do so with warm smile. By doing this you are telling it's okay to come home no matter how mad you are at him. Don't nag, don't be contentious and don't be argumentative. Your relationship needs a measure of peace to survive. If you need to let him know when he is not doing right, do so in a mature and firm conversation. Don't be violent.
7. BE HIS BEST COOK: a man's stomach they say is the easiest way to his heart. This is true. You don't have to be a chef to do this. Learn to be the best cook of all his favorite meals. Make sure that no girl can do it better than you. Be creative with food, learn some new recipes to tempt his pallet.
8. WATCH YOUR WEIGHT: One of the things that give woman complex and make them suspicious of every single girl is when they add weight. They begin to feel inferior to the still shapely single girls. Remember you are in competition, so watch your diet, exercise and loose weight if you have to.

These are not all but these eight tips will put you in the right course. Your marriage is worth fighting for and these are your weapons.

HUNGRY HEARTS

HUNGRY HEARTS
Hello everyone
My name is Stella, and I am a banker. I have always had this one challenge in life and that is weight. I am 27 years old and a size 22. Plus I am not what you will call beautiful.
I work at the counter with two very beautiful girls. So whenever a guy comes they see them, tip them sometimes date them. One of them is even getting married to a rich customer. For me it is like I am invisible.
Until the bank employed a new supervisor for us. He is a very handsome guy. He is stylish for lack of words. All the women in the office were dying for him. You can now imagine my surprise when he started making advances at me. Me of all people. Of course I ceased the opportunity.
The problem is I think he is stealing from the bank. He has two jeeps, a range rover sport and fj cruiser he doesn't bring to work. He owns his house and it is tastefully furnished. I know he can't afford all that with his salary. When I asked him. He said he invested his salaries on the stock market n forex. really?
I am scared because I don't want to be seen as his accomplice when he is caught but  How can I leave the only man who he thinks I am beautiful.
But if he is stealing money from the bank or if he is involved in some kind of crime or fraud. Won't they also point the same finger at me when he is caught.
Plus I have fallen totally in love with him. Truly I don't know what to do. Do I leave him? Report him? Or pretend all is well?
Plz readers help

Stella

Saturday 27 December 2014

21 Romantic new year and Christmas SMS/Text Messages

1. Can I get a Picture of You so that I can show Santa what I want for Christmas?

2. You are the gift I ask Santa for every Christmas. Merry
Christmas to the one I love.

3. No matter what I get for Christmas you’re all I really need.

4. I just wanted to say hi to my Christmas angel.

5. Every night I pray that this would be this new year  you'll finally tell me that I am number one on your Christmas list.

6. Why do I need new year presents when I already have you?
Happy new year to the most beautiful angel on earth. I love
you.

7. You are the gift I ask every new year!   Because  I love you so much .

8. Christmas is the day to tell your loved ones what they mean to you. How could I miss this opportunity to pass all my love to
the most loved of the lot! I love you. Have a Merry Christmas.

9. It’s new year! But I wouldn't be so excited without you... I love you!

10. This new year spread your fragrance to all those around you and make this world a happy place. Happy new year  to the one I love the most.

11. Can I keep you forever? You are the new year  present that I never want to lose. Happy new year  my beloved.

12. Christmas is the time to touch every heart with love and care. Christmas is the time to receive and send blessings. It is the time to breathe the magic in the air. Wishing you a very Merry Christmas.

13. On the eve of new year
I’ll have you near, I’ll wrap my arms around you And hold my darling dear.

14. Christmas is the time to share love & joy. A time to recollect beautiful memories. It is a time to sit back & relax. Enjoy the holiday season. Merry Christmas

15. May the winds of love and joy visit your homes this
Season and live with you and your family for today and
forever. Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

16. How I wish every morning was a like this, with lovely Christmas music playing and you, my baby in my arms! I love you sweets. Merry Christmas and happy new year to you, my darling.

17. This is the best new year ever because i have u... Wait, next year would be better because I'd have You and our child... happy new year honey!

18. I wish you a life filled with love and care, as you filled mine with yours. I thank you for your support, strength and faith. This new year, I promise you love, passion and togetherness for the
rest of my life. New year

19. Hey darling, wake up, it is such a lovely new year morning and I wish you all the happiness in the world this season . I promise to do all it takes to see you happy. Happy new year my baby. You owe me a new year kiss!

20. Let’s Kiss For new year,
For our love is strong,
Let’s Kiss For new year ,
Together is where we belong…

21. Sending you all of my love for a wonderful new year,The
only way I know…with all of my heart.

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Thursday 25 December 2014

LIFESTYLE

10 TIPS TO HAVING A MERRIER CHRISTMAS

Christmas to most people is the most exciting time of the year. Most times we go through the year waiting for Christmas.
Why is that? Because it is the only time of the year when all cares are thrown away no matter what they are and rejoicing and happiness sets in no matter your circumstances.
But Christmas can be more exciting. More wonderful and merrier
Just apply these tips

1. Say merry Christmas to people you meet at malls, at the airport, your neighbors, your family member, people you meet on the street. Just smile and say merry Christmas. This will help put you in that delightful christmas mood.
2. Give!!! Christmas is a time of giving. So look around you and seek out those who are not having so great a Christmas and give. The wonderful thing about Christmas is that  you may give cash, food item or clothing.
3. Don't over indulge in alcohol. I am sure you want to stay alive even after Christmas, alcohol may deprive of you of that.
4. Don't over eat! I am sure you want to still keep that super model shape even after Christmas. Besides when you over eat, your stomach hurts and this may take away the Christmas in you.
5. Go out! Alone, with family, with your partner, with your girls or guys! To the cinema, to beach, to dinner, to parks. Have fun. That is what Christmas is all about!
6. Look for new recipes! Though Christmas is not complete without rice and chicken in this part of the world, you can still spice up your Christmas by adding new side dishes. This will excite those at your table.
7. Don't drink and drive! Sadly Christmas is still that time of the year when a lot of people loose their lives or get maimed for life in accidents. So please if you are drunk in a party, find another way home. Take a cab, call a friend or family member. If you can don't imbibe alcohol at all.
8. Take holiday if you can afford it, even if it is to your village. Surprisingly villages are more fun during Christmas than the cities. This is because a lot of people come back from different parts of the world bringing with them their own idea of fun but please indulge in only wholesome fun
9. Have family reunions, this a splendid way to feel the Christmas spirit. Some of my memorable Christmas experience are those spent running around with my cousins. Listening to the history of my family and kindred from my grandmother or to my aunts as they take turns in telling us folk tales.
10. Finally Don't forget the reason for the season, think of Christ and his atonement. What great blessings his great sacrifice brought to the world. After all Christmas is about him and none else.

Wednesday 24 December 2014

HUNGRY HEARTS

HUNGRY HEARTS

Hello readers
Please I need advice urgently.

When I was sixteen I met and started dating Peter, Peter had just gotten admission into the university.  But we were world apart in that my family lived in one room while his lived in a duplex but he didn't seem to mind, he would take me out in his father's jeep to different places of fun. I was the envy of my friends.
Then I got pregnant. I didn't even notice because I was still getting my periods. It was one big Aunty in our compound that called me one day and asked me if I was pregnant. I said no and laughed it off. This aunty is one those girls that you are not sure of what they do but they always have money and they are always with different men. My mom hated her and so does other married women in the compound but the kids and teens loved her, she was generous and friendly so it was easy for me to talk to her. By the time she finished questioning me, she was convinced I was pregnant. She took me for a test and it came out positive. I wanted to die. I pleaded with her not to tell my mom. She agreed but also talked me off the idea of telling Peter. She said his parents would kill me. They will never allow their promising son to dump his education and marry me. She suggested abortion. So between me and her we aborted the baby without anyone knowing including my parents.
Peter got into school and somehow we drifted apart. I finished secondary and went to learn hair dressing.
So seven years later I have a big salon in a better part of the town. I was doing OK in my own level.
One day a girl walked in to do her hair. When she was done a guy came to pick her up and it was Peter. We were so surprised to see each other again. He began asking me out and we started dating again.
now we are engaged but I am dying of guilt. How can I tell him I once killed his baby. Knowing Peter and his sense of honor, I am afraid of what he would do if he finds out. I love him so much more now and very afraid to loose him but the guilt is killing me.
The truth I can keep it secret after all i don't know where aunty Joyce is. Still what if she comes back one day and decides to tell. Peter is beginning to notice my withdrawn attitude. How can I marry him with this guilt. I don't know what to do please help me.



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Tuesday 23 December 2014

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6 amazing tips to a happier, healthier and more exciting marriage!

Have you ever wondered the difference between happily married couples and those who are not? Did those happy couples just win some cosmic coin toss in which they were blessed with unwavering attraction and compatibility? The truth is, couples who maintain love and satisfaction in married life do so through hard work and good communication. Fortunately, this is possible for every married couple not just a few lucky winners. The following is a list of the six things that happily married couples do to keep their relationship alive.

1. Make time to talk

Happily married couples talk to each other on a regular basis about pretty much everything. Intimacy fades quickly when couples stop talking to each other. Don’t let life get in the way of this fundamental relationship builder. If you find that your schedule or workload makes it difficult to do this, fit in small chunks of conversation whenever you can. For example, do the dishes together after dinner. This will give you a chance to chat for at least a few minutes and allow you to connect. Make this a priority in your marriage and don’t let other things get in the way.

2. Work out your problems together

Your spouse should be the first person you go to if you have a problem, even if that problem involves him or her. Happily married couples are able to talk to their spouse about anything, whereas unhappy couples are often more comfortable talking to their friends. It is tempting to do so because often a friend will sympathize and agree with your side of things. However, this is an unhealthy pattern that will only drive a wedge into your marriage.

3. Surprise each other

The more variety a husband and wife introduce into their life together, the happier their marriage will be. Make a point of doing routine things differently, simply for the sake of change. One couple said that every once in a while they like to meet at a restaurant where they pretend they're strangers who are powerfully attracted to each other. There are no rules about how to introduce variety into your life. All that matters is that you both find it exciting, adventurous, and fun.

4. Pursue your own interests

Too many men and women use marriage as an excuse to stop growing and challenging themselves as individuals. Happily married couples, on the other hand, don't hide in their marriage. For your sake as well as for the sake of your marriage, you must always strive to reach your goals. The first step is defining your goal; the next step is breaking down what may seem like an impossible dream into a series of small, manageable steps. Remember to encourage and support each other in your individual pursuits.

5. Act like a lover

Happily married couples, no matter how many years they have been together, no matter how many children they have, always remember that they are lovers, first. Remind yourself how you felt when you were first dating and continue to treat your spouse that way. Do your best to maintain your physical appearance and good hygiene habits. Listen attentively when your partner speaks to you. Flirt with your spouse the way you used to. Let him or her know that you still find them to be an exciting and interesting partner.

6. Maintain healthy priorities

There is a limit to how much you can cram into one lifetime. If your marriage is suffering because you have too many things on your plate, it is time to reevaluate your commitments. List all of the demands, both self-imposed and external, that are filling your life and review them with your spouse. Decide which ones are absolutely necessary and eliminate those that are not. Be realistic about your expectations. Being “perfect” is far less important than being happy

Amber tips

I know the tradition is for a guy to find a girl he likes and ask her out. Fine, I am not quarreling with that tradition but what if it is a girl who finds the guy attractive, what does she do? Pray for the guy to return her feelings? The truth is that you can actually do more than that. You can find a way to get the guy to ask you without it seeming obvious. And the guy would think it was all his idea.

1.Get Noticed
He cannot ask you out if he doesn’t know you exist. It is good to be casual, act as if you don’t care, but make sure that he notices you

2) Be Sexy and look good
People are attracted to people who are attractive, so please take care of your appearance.  Looking good is very-very important. Get your hair done, work out, and maybe get your teeth whitened. When you feel good about yourself, people notice. Dress in what suits your body best.
3) Look Interested
When you have the chance to talk to him, appear interested whatever he is saying and pay compliments to him. Guys like to think you know and like what they are talking about. Common interests are a must for a relationship.
4) Be Flirty
Flirt with him. Give him signals that he interests you. Try and make maximum eye contact with him. Give him some flirty glances across the room, bar, office etc. look him in the eye and if he asks what? Just say it is nothing but your eyes are beautiful.
5) Make a common friend
Become friends with friend. His friend could be a way to communicate to your crush. He will also come in handy when you want additional information about your crush.
6) Make him jealous
Have fun with others guys and make sure he is watching you.  talk or flirt with someone else when he is watching. Be sure not to overdo it. This is just a way to send him a small message that that you have other options.
7) Never be clingy
Value your independence. Don’t stalk him, it will only make him weary of you, this might build fear of you in him or you might come across as desperate to him.

Most importantly, you should not worry too much on how to get him to ask you out or love you. Don't think of drastically changing yourself to suit his likes and wants. He  should like you the way you are. If he doesn't, just accept the fact that he is not the one for you. Love is not a one night affair. In the end all that matters is that you love yourself.

Monday 22 December 2014




Two simple exercises for effective belly fat reduction

 Christmas is a time of enjoyment, outings, parties etc. That means over indulgence in foods and drinks. Fine, Christmas is meant to be enjoyed but how can you do that if you are constantly worrying  about adding flesh in the wrong places.
Problem solved do this two simple steps to stay in shape this season and enjoy all that comes with Christmas without worry.

An important note: This isn't a complete workout program, but it is a great routine that you can do almost anywhere, anytime. And it's a fantastic substitute for 15 minutes on the treadmill.

Kettlebell (or Dumbbell) Swing
Bend at your hips, and hold a kettlebell (or dumbbbell) with both hands at arm’s length in front of you. Now, rock back slightly and “hike” the kettlebell between your legs. Then squeeze your glutes, thrust your hips forward forcefully, and swing the weight to shoulder height. Allow momentum to swing the weight—you're not trying to actively lift it with your arms. Reverse the movement, so that you swing the kettlebell between your legs again. Make sure you don't round your lower back at any time; it should stay naturally arched when you bend at your hips. Continue to swing back and forth.

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Squat Thrust
Stand with your feet slightly wider than shoulder-width apart. Bending at your hips and knees, squat down and lower your body until you can place your hands on the floor. Kick your legs backward—into a pushup position—and then immediately reverse the move and quickly stand up from the squat. That's one rep. To make the exercise even more challenging, you can jump up from the squat instead of simply standing up quickly.

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HUNGRY HEARTS

Hello Chioma I hope you post this because you have been silent for sometime now.
You a good writer, in fact the very best from this country. I think you should make a movie out of when the heart knows.
Me and my boyfriend started dating since university. We have been dating for seven years now.
At first when we finished serving we had to find jobs which took a bit longer for him. During those trying times when I had a job and he didn't, I was there for him strongly. Luckily he got a job two years later, a good job. We started saving for a house, though I told him that we should get married first, he refused. I find out that the more I pester him about marriage the more he withdraws from me. Friends told me to take it easy with him. Use a more subtle way. It hurt that I have to scheme to get him to marry me after all these years but I did because I love him.
Meanwhile there is this girl in his office, he is always talking about or making reference to whenever we are talking. I started suspecting them and confronted him and he denied and said she is just a colleague and nothing more. But I wouldn't let it rest so maybe in other to distract me, he said we should focus more on our wedding plans of course that shut me up.
Then one evening after work he came home looking very sad. He told me he had a confession to make about him and his colleague
I could still remember his Words, I love you and really want to marry you. But I love Shade more, I didn't mean to fall in love with her, it just happened.
At this point I didn't know what to do but cry and beg, seven years of my life wasted, just like that. Where do I start from?
As if that was not enough, he said the girl told him that if I curse him it will work, that he should beg me to forgive and release him willingly with my blessings.
The idea of curse didn't cross my mind until he said it. I want to curse him for the wasted seven years of my life, for the lies, for the money, time and efforts. I gave him my all and I will curse him with my all.
I hope this is the right thing to do because they cannot just get away with it and live a happy life while I die slowly watching them.

Monday 15 December 2014

HUNGRY HEARTS 

Hello dear readers of this wonderful blog 
I need advice urgently. 
A few months back I finished my youth service and came to Lagos to stay with cousin while I search for a job. My cousin is married and his wife is still very tight even with two children. 
I don't know anyone in this town, this is my first time in Lagos. My problem is my sister in law wants to have sex with me.
She has been dropping subtle hints, like walking into my room in a transparent night gown which does not leave anything to imagination. Like inviting me to their bedroom to help fix some electronic when her husband is not at home while she lays on the bed in usual seductive costume, most times the movie she is asking me to help her play is porn. Mistakenly running into me, forcing me catch her in her skimpy clothes which she wears mostly when her husband is at work. I mostly pretend I don't get what she is doing. But I am a man and she is tight but I don't want to betray my cousin. 
All that is left is for her is to verbally say it. I don't know what to do. I fear one of these days she will stop being subtle. I can't leave the house because I don't know where else to go. I can't go back to the north where I grew up because right now my cousin has gotten a friend of his to offer me job, I am just waiting to start. Even if I start, it will take a while before I can save up for a house of my own.
I am thinking of telling my cousin or telling some family member but I don't know if that will boomerang. 
Please help me!

Sunday 14 December 2014




AMBER ROMANCE

WHEN THE HEART KNOWS

CHAPTER THIRTY




Something must have woken Uche, because he looked around and saw his beloved wife trying to get up and wincing with pain.
“Are you out of your mind?” he asked crossing over to her and helping her back on the bed. “You have just been through a major trauma and surgery and you shouldn’t be sitting up.
Then the memory of what happened came flooding back to her. She shuddered with the thought of it, but Uche was here. How did she get here? She noticed then that she was in the hospital.
“What happened? She asked
“You don’t remember? He asked for a moment thinking it was better she didn’t.
“I mean how did I get here?”
He knew then that this was the time for the truth.
“I was at Eden Castle and couldn’t concentrate, I couldn’t stop thinking about you and what could have been, then I decided to come home and try one more time”
“You wanted a divorce, you were going to leave me” she said as if she couldn’t still believe it.
“You were unhappy, I saw you every time crying yourself to sleep. And it was like you couldn’t bear the thought of living with me”
“I cried because you wouldn’t give us another chance, I cried because you didn’t love me anymore”
“That was my mistake honey, I have loved you right from the first day I saw you but it took me a long time to realize it and a longer time to accept it and because of that I nearly lost you. Why do you think I forced you to marry me?”
“I don’t know”
“I saw that as the only way I could win you back, I reasoned that if we got married we would learn to trust and love each other again”
“Uche I accepted to marry you for that same reason too, I may not have realized it at that time. You know me, ten thousand fire spitting dragons would never have forced me to marry a man I didn’t love” and she was not going to waste any time again hedging or playing around. He was her life and love and her everything.
“I love you with all my heart” she told him with her heart in her eyes.
“I nearly lost you, when I think of what could have happened I…” the thought of it sent terror down his spine. “I love you; I never thought it was possible to love a woman the way I do you” he said “One more thing” Uche began “There was never anything between me and Angela and that day when you saw her…”
“I know honey, I believe you now”
What a fool she had been, she thought, if only she had believed him when he explained the scene with Angela. “Uche…” Nma began
 “ I have been stupid, I let my jealousy get the better of me and the love we shared but I love you, please give me one more chance to prove it” she waited for him to say something but when he didn’t show any reaction, she continued
“I’m sorry I didn’t believe you when you explained about Angela, I believe you now. I’m sorry I was selfish about your needs; I was so full of my jealousy for Angela to think straight. I’m sorry, please forgive me. I don’t know what else to do. I don’t want a divorce; I just want to be with you. When those mad women had me, all I prayed was for another chance to show you much I love you” she finished lamely
“No sweet heart, I am the one who should be apologizing, because I left you, if I didn’t come when I did, I…”
“I am alive” she smiled at him, God gave us another chance Uche”
“I love you, are you sure you want to stay married to me, because I am never going to let you go ever again, even if you cry out a whole ocean.”
“I don’t want you to ever let me go ever please”
“Why would I, when you beg so nicely”
He leaned forward and she wound his hand around his neck and drew her to him but he was careful because of her bandage, she kissed him, she didn’t realize how much she missed kissing him, she kissed him harder. Uche took control of the kissing and leaned down from the chair, kissing her with all the passion he had withheld for so long
“I love you, I missed you” Uche murmured
“I am so happy?” Nma said heaving a sigh smiling.
“How did you even decide to believe my own version of the story?”
“I decided that all the Angelas of this world didn’t worth loosing you over and your house keeper made a confession” she told him and she suddenly wanted to know what happened to the house keeper and daughter.
“What happened to Mrs. Ekpo and her daughter?”
“In police custody, they will be put away forever unless I have nothing with it. Incidentally Miss Gladys is also here in the hospital. She tried to stop her sister and got knocked out for it”
“Are you serious, now I believe appearances are deceptive?”
He remembered then, “Don’t you have news for me?”
She looked lost for a time, then it came to her, the doctor must have discovered her pregnancy” she smiled at him “Yes honey, we having a baby”
He gathered her in his hands and kissed her “I love you more than you can ever know”
“I love you and I won’t ever stop loving you” she said to him
“Better for you, because you are stuck with me forever whether you want it or not” he replied
“Alright Mr. Okoha I think you have got yourself a deal” she smiled at him “And it is a deal I am more than willing to make, do you know what I have been through these past weeks, I nearly stopped breathing”
“I hope we never have to go through this again” Uche said soberly
“I am not sure I will survive it again. We should be open with each other. I trust you no matter what I see again”
He looked at her and knew that only this woman possessed the exclusive power to hurt him and if that happened he would  never survive it. It was a frightening thought but yet he couldn’t stop offering her his heart and all he had. His life would never be the same again. He couldn’t believe it he set out to seduce her and ended up loving her.
“Say you love me” he demanded harshly after those frightening thoughts he had, he was entitled but he mellowed the harshness with his passion clouded voice as he kissed her forgetting for a while her surgery.
“I do love you so much” she replied
“Forever?”
“Yes! Yes! Forever” she echoed and meant it.



Dear readers,
It has been a wonderful experience sharing my passion for writing with you. I have learnt and have bee encouraged by your enthusiasm and comments. Some of you have grown from readers to friends. I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart.

I will take a three weeks break and then we will start with a sequel to when the heart knows, a story for Chuck and Helen and of your all favorite character, Eva, Stanley, Amber, etc and of course Uche and Nma. We will look into their forever after.

But the blog won't be empty till then. We will be posting hungry hearts, relationship and lifestyle tips and of course 'how we met' this is where readers and others send the love story of how they met their partner with a romantic picture of the two of them. We will also have celeb interview periodically.

So subscribe to the blog and get your friends to do so. We are going have so much fun from now on.

Yours Ever

Chioma Onuoha



Saturday 13 December 2014

5 WAYS TO TELL HE IS CHEATING
Suspect your partner of cheating? And can't seem to confirm or catch him? 
Here are 5 simple way to tell. 

1. He suddenly begins to hide his phone from you or subtly or playfully takes it from you whenever you are with it. Or he deletes some messages before letting you use it. That is a definite sign he is cheating. 

2. Has he recently started leaving the room to answer some calls or do you see him at some hidden corners, bathrooms etc taking a call which he stylishly cuts when he sees you and if you ask he would answer, no one important? Then he is seriously hiding something and babe that is a signal he is cheating

3. How does he act when you visit unannounced. Fidgety, nervous, quickly decides you should hang out anything to leave the house or the great give away anger? Does he only ask you to come around at a certain time, won't pick or reply text until a certain time. Ask you to call only one of his numbers. These are also signs of a between-the-sheets betrayal. For some reason, they do not want you at their home at certain times, and they do not want to call you  at some certain time because he is hiding his other girl 


4. Does he do quick clean up of his car before he lets you in. You know stylishly picking up debris and stuffing stuff in the pigeon hole and back seat. Does he do quick clean up of the house when you arrive suddenly. You know kiss you, talk excessively. Turns you away from some certain areas of the house maybe with kisses. Wants to get down immediately but you can tell he is nervous and distracted? Babe it's time to wise up, your man is cheating. 

5. Is he constantly putting some girl down. Saying awful things about her. Condemn stuffs about the girl but yet can't stop talking about her even if it is in the negative? That is because he can't stop thinking about her. From the abundance of the heart the mouth speakest. He might even say the girl is after him or wants him or made a pass, he wants you to think the girl is undesirable but the fact is he can't wait to get down and dirty with her. girlfriend fire his cheating ass before he dumps you for miss Undesirable! 

5 WAYS TO TELL HE IS CHEATING
Suspect your partner of cheating? And can't seem to confirm or catch him? 
Here are 5 simple way to tell. 

1. He suddenly begins to hide his phone from you or subtly or playfully takes it from you whenever you are with it. Or he deletes some messages before letting you use it. That is a definite sign he is cheating. 
2. Has he recently started leaving the room to answer some calls or do you see him at some hidden corners, bathrooms etc taking a call which he stylishly cuts when he sees you and if you ask he would answer, no one important? Then he is seriously hiding something and babe that is a signal he is cheating

3. How does he act when you visit unannounced. Fidgety, nervous, quickly decides you should hang out anything to leave the house or the great give away anger? Does he only ask you to come around at a certain time, won't pick or reply text until a certain time. Ask you to call only one of his numbers. These are also signs of a between-the-sheets betrayal. For some reason, they do not want you at their home at certain times, and they do not want to call you  at some certain time because he is hiding his other girl 

4. Does he do quick clean up of his car before he lets you in. You know stylishly picking up debris and stuffing stuff in the pigeon hole and back seat. Does he do quick clean up of the house when you arrive suddenly. You know kiss you, talk excessively. Turns you away from some certain areas of the house maybe with kisses. Wants to get down immediately but you can tell he is nervous and distracted? Babe it's time to wise up, your man is cheating. 
5. Is he constantly putting some girl down. Saying awful things about her. Condemn stuffs about the girl but yet can't stop talking about her even if it is in the negative? That is because he can't stop thinking about her. From the abundance of the heart the mouth speakest. He might even say the girl is after him or wants him or made a pass, he wants you to think the girl is undesirable but the fact is he can't wait to get down and dirty with her. girlfriend fire his cheating ass before he dumps you for miss Undesirable! 

Thursday 11 December 2014

HUNGRY HEARTS

HUNGRY HEARTS

Hello dear readers!
For the story I am about to tell, I don't really need advice because I have learnt from the experience. I only want to ask girls to beware of guys especially this so called Europe guys especially this season.
I met a guy on a social media. We began talking. He lives Sweden, we promised to see each other when he comes back. So once in a while we will chat, call or text.
So he came back and asked me meet in him in his hotel room. I refused and said instead we should meet at restaurant or fast food. I told him that different things happen in hotel rooms in Lagos. He agreed. We agreed to meet in a fast food.. meanwhile my friends all asked me to bring take away for them. You know how girls are and I agreed.
I got to the fast food, met him and we talked, he seemed like nice fellow. He asked me to get something to eat but bearing in mind I wanted some take away. I said I would rather buy take away when I am ready to leave
We talked u know, when I was ready to leave I bought take away of 3k or there about. The guy walked me to the road. As I was about to enter keke. He asked me if I was not going to his hotel with him. I said since we are seeing again tomorrow no need. Only for me to enter the marua and the driver couldn't move, it seemed as if it was stuck to something. The man was dragging the marua even as the driver tried to move, he began shouting for me to come down. He said I should give the take away. I quickly gave them to him. He continued shouting. You think you can play me Lagos style? People gathered. I wanted to die of shame. I wished I could just disappear.
I quickly climbed bike and left.
My friends said I was lucky, the guy could have accused me of stealing his phone or wallet and people would have stripped me naked.
I just thought about it and I said most of these girls who are publicly stripped naked might not have stolen anything o! Haba! Me I have learnt my lesson beware of European guys o. This is their season, most of then would be coming home and some girls would end up as victims.

HUNGRY HEARTS

HUNGRY HEARTS

Hello dear readers!
For the story I am about to tell, I don't really need advice because I have learnt from the experience. I only want to ask girls to beware of guys especially this so called Europe guys especially this season.
I met a guy on a social media. We began talking. He lives Sweden, we promised to see each other when he comes back. So once in a while we will chat, call or text.
So he came back and asked me meet in him in his hotel room. I refused and said instead we should meet at restaurant or fast food. I told him that different things happen in hotel rooms in Lagos. He agreed. We agreed to meet in a fast food.. meanwhile my friends all asked me to bring take away for them. You know how girls are and I agreed.
I got to the fast food, met him and we talked, he seemed like nice fellow. He asked me to get something to eat but bearing in mind I wanted some take away. I said I would rather buy take away when I am ready to leave
We talked u know, when I was ready to leave I bought take away of 3k or there about. The guy walked me to the road. As I was about to enter keke. He asked me if I was not going to his hotel with him. I said since we are seeing again tomorrow no need. Only for me to enter the marua and the driver couldn't move, it seemed as if it was stuck to something. The man was dragging the marua even as the driver tried to move, he began shouting for me to come down. He said I should give the take away. I quickly gave them to him. He continued shouting. You think you can play me Lagos style? People gathered. I wanted to die of shame. I wished I could just disappear.
I quickly climbed bike and left.
My friends said I was lucky, the guy could have accused me of stealing his phone or wallet and people would have stripped me naked.
I just thought about it and I said most of these girls who are publicly stripped naked might not have stolen anything o! Haba! Me I have learnt my lesson beware of European guys o. This is their season, most of then would be coming home and some girls would end up as victims.

Wednesday 10 December 2014

RELATIONSHIPS
10 simple romance tips to melt her heart.
Most men think money and sex are what they need to keep their girl happy and interested. Hmm! No wonder there are so much cheatings, break ups and heart breaks.
Here are 10 tip to keep the woman of your dream in love with you always
1. HUG HER FROM BEHIND.
This is my favorite. Maybe she is in the kitchen cooking, or looking out of the balcony. Just tiptoe behind her and draw her to you nuzzle her neck and say words like 'couldn't resist doing this or you take my breathe away. Girls loves this, she will take time to savor the moment and then turn around for a heart wrenching kiss.
2. GIFTS: gifts are cool ways of showing your woman you love her. it doesn't matter if it is expensive or cheap, all that matters is the message behind the gift so you have to be careful. For example if you earn one million a month and you get her a techno of seven thousand, that is a romance killer but if you get her a silly crystal heart maybe for five thousand naira. She will wear it the rest of her life.
3.COMPLIMENTS: ladies love compliments at all times and in most thing, especially if it is coming from the man they love. Compliment her when she dresses up for you, when she cooks for you, when in bed with you before or after. Compliment her talents and skills. Use creative romantic words.
4. OUT OF THE BOX DATES: Going for dinner, movie, bar, lunch are OK but with time it gets boring. An evening walk while holding hands, camping just the two of you and nature. Movie night in your house, just you, her, the couch and television.   Watching the sun set or rise together and turning to each other while it happens and kiss deeply etc.
5.SURPRISES: women love romantic surprises a lot especially if our friends or colleagues are there to see and envy us. Send a basket of her favorite pastries to her work place with some romantic words telling her how you feel. It could be her favorite food or candy.
6 TINKER ABOUT IN HER HOUSE: When you visit her, it shouldn't just be for food and sex. Fix things in her house, leaky sinks, roofs, broken furniture. Don't worry she will reward you as you do this by giving you random kisses as you work, saying thank you, preparing your favorite meal.
7. Romantic getaways: a weekend at five star hotel, exotic places, a weekend of road drives with no particular destination in mind, sleeping in cheap hotels where night meets you, eating lots of junk, visiting remote towns and having fun.
8 Text messages etc: send her very romantic message expressing your feelings at the time. It doesn't matter if it is sexual, romantic, friendly etc just make it expressive, romantic  and elemental. Remember I love you is never grows old. Say it to her every now and then.
9 SHOWING PEOPLE SHE IS YOURS: every girl love being held by her man, when you walk into room or just walking on the streets. When you Introduce her to your friends, what you call her matters. A friend, girl friend, love of your life. That is the moment she gets what she is to you. Using her picture or one of you both as your social media Profile picture. Saying how much you love her on your social media status etc.
10. TAKE HER SHOPPING : Another favorite of mine, and of all women. take her to a boutique let her model the clothes just for you. Compliment and have a say in some of clothes and stuffs she picks. Be careful so it doesn't seem as if you are making her choices for her. strong and independent women hate that. Tell her she has an incredible body and everything fits her then let her know the  ones you find sexy and irresistible on her.

Try these and watch how your girl falls in love with you all over again.


Relationship counsel for the day.. eeee

We all LOVE and MISS our partners, and telling them that is a great
way to express affection, but not the ONLY way.
After a while “I love you” and “I miss you” get quite old and lose
their meaning for our partner.
The good news is that you’re not limited to only these two
expressions of love and affection. There’s a lot more fun and
touching ways to compliment a girl and tell her much she means to
you.
Therefore below I’m going to share with you 7 ways to express your
affection beyond the usual “I miss you” and “I love you”. 

7 compliments that will touch her heart and turn you into her prince
charming.

1. "I can’t stop thinking of you."
One thing I love to do sometimes when talking on Skype is to make
that face of defeat and say “Okaaay, I admit, I pretty much can’t
stop thinking of you, most of the time.”
This might be the only moment in our entire one hour conversation
when I would express my affection toward her. But because it was
such a cute and sweet way of letting her know about how much I miss her, she needs no more.
I don’t need to tell her that love her and that I miss her 5 times.
This one little line is more than enough.
You can also turn it into a text and say something along the lines
of “What did you do to me!?! I just can’t stop thinking of you! :*”

2. "How did I get so lucky!?" (to have you in my life)
You can’t imagine how GOOD it feels to hear that from the person you
love most. It’s such a beautiful way to acknowledge how much she
means to you and to make her feel special.
So go ahead and use it. And use it more often. Every time she does
something nice for you, say “Wow, how did I get so lucky!?” When you
are in public and she says something nice about you, say “How did I
get so lucky!?” When you’re having fun together and enjoying each
other’s presence say “How did I get so lucky!?”
You’ll make her feel loved and appreciated. And she’ll love you for that!

3. "You drive me crazy!" (in a good way)
Said with the right tone, this means that she just makes you crazy
about her. She just makes you feel in love and alive. And if that’s
true, go ahead and tell her that.
You’ll tell her that you love her tomorrow. Today tell her that “she
just drives you crazy!”.

4. "You’re just adorable!"
Isn’t this the sweetest compliment you could ever make to a woman?
I think it is. And she’ll think so too.
So don’t be shy to use it. And of course use it when appropriate,
like when she has that shy smile on her face, or when she’s prepared
something cute for you, or when she’s put some thought into how
she looks.
Make her feel like a little princess with this compliment.

5. "Nobody made me happier than you!"
With this compliment your comparing her to your previous girlfriends
and putting her way above them. And the truth is that women are
very competitive among themselves, so if you tell her that she’s the best
woman ever for you, that’s a BIG compliment. Trust me on that. 
Use this one more often and remind her of how much you appreciate her.
By the way, you can also use a compliment like this to reinforce a
good behavior that she has. This way encouraging her to keep acting
that way in the future.

6. "God! You’re just perfect!"
For the special occasions you can make a big exclamation and tell
her “God! You’re just perfect!”
Thus letting her know that whatever she’s just done has had a huge
effect on you. And like the amazing guy that you are, you know how
to appreciate a good woman.
But, this is an important but… don’t use this too often, or she’ll
might take it too seriously.

7. "Come on, stop being so cute!"
And lastly, this is one of my favorite ways to tease and compliment
her at the same time. It’s a fun, playful way of spontaneously
adding some affection into an otherwise normal conversation.

So this is it.

Now you’re armed with 7 amazing phrases to tell your honey bee
and make her feel loved and special. Read them again, commit them to
memory and when the time is right tell her what she’s been dying to
hear for so long.
And guess what? She’ll love you for it.

Warning!

But one thing must be clear. As much as we want to make our partner
feel loved, we mustn’t overdo it. Because yes, it’s possible to
OVERDO it. Affection is like food. If you feed her too much the
stomach will start hurting. If you shower her with too much
affection she’ll take it for granted, and she’ll enjoy it less,
instead of more.

Therefore go make her happy, but don’t get too carried away.

And here's the amazing news that I've got for you:
Right now I am working on creating the ultimate guide for you to
have amazing conversations on Skype, phone or through text-
messaging.
It's going to be called "Always Know What To Say: 50 Ideas To Make
Your Conversations More Fun And Exciting!"
So in just a few weeks you'll be able to get this guide and learn
how to make your conversations fun, touching and exciting for you
and your partner.

Written by Leroy contractors 
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Amber romance

When the heart knows

CHAPTER   TWENTY NINE


The hospital waiting room was crowded. Uche’s mom and dad were sitting side by side, the great patriarch tried as much as he could to keep the anxiety away. Charles sat holding Eva who was dabbing her eyes every once in a while in silent sob. Stanley and Chuck flagged Uche’s side as he leaned on wall as if to lend him some support. Helen sat beside Tessy and Felix, praying and trying to comfort Tessy. Amber took in the entire scene and thanked God again. Perhaps she was the only one with strong faith; somehow she believed that God wouldn’t be so cruel that he would take away her daughter from her after she had just found her.
No one felt as guilty as Uche did, he blamed himself. If he hadn’t been so selfishly caught up in his own sorrow, he wouldn’t have left her. He would have tried to love her more, find out why she was so unhappy after all she had once confessed she loved him. He should have told her countless times that he loved her too. But what did he do, sent her divorce papers and left, leaving her alone to die.
“God” he prayed, he prayed like he had never prayed before, he promised heaven and earth if the Lord would spare Nma’s life.
His mother had been watching him ever since, she knew he blamed himself. She knew he would be cursing himself for not being there for her. But it wasn’t his fault, she sighed.  There was no way he could have known that this would happen. She felt she should do something to ease his pain, as a mother she felt helpless for once. At that moment she prayed with all her heart that God would spare Nma’s life not just for Nma’s sake but for her son’s too because she knew Uche would not survive her death.
“It is not your fault” she heard herself say.
“Yes it is” he answered quietly and those who knew him gasped, they know what it meant when he used that tone.
“You can’t possibly believe that” Tessy said sharply “You could not have known what evil inhabited in the heart of the woman”
“But I knew and chose to ignore it, I knew and left her, I left her mother” he said to his mom and walked away to look out from the window. “The ordeal she must have gone through alone, knowing that I wasn’t coming back”
“But you came back” Eva said, “You saved her”
“Do you call that saving” he snapped at her “She is lying down there half dead and you call that…”
“My daughter is going to pull through this, she is determined to live Uche, for you and for the ba….” she stopped, she didn’t think that was the right time to announce the new life “She loves you and doesn’t want to leave without you”
But Uche heard the statement she didn’t finish “what other thing was she determined to stay alive for” he asked her in that quiet tone that everyone feared. Amber knew there was no getting out of that.
“She took deep breath “She wanted to be the one to tell you and it pained her that she might never able to do that”
“There is still a chance she will tell you herself, I assure you” Stanley spoke “She is going to pull through you will see”
“Amber tell me right now or leave” everyone gasped but they turned to Amber, they too were curious, they wanted to know
“She is pregnant, she just found out”
There was a collective gasps
“So you see, you just have to have some faith, she wants to stay alive. This is not the time to give up if you do; you are invariable pronouncing her dead”
If Uche heard any word beyond the fact that Nma was pregnant, he didn’t show because at that time he felt very faint and he staggered a little. Rose got up from her seat just as he slipped down the wall to a sitting position; she put her hands around him to offer her maternal comfort. He held on to her, a child again.
There were tears in the eyes of everyone, though the men tried to act bold but it was a battle they lost and that was how the doctor found them. He was the Okohas family doctor and he knew what pain they were going through, his heart went out to them. Uche’s father was the first to notice him. He sat up and looked at the doctor silently asking him if all was right. But the doctor gave nothing away.
Everyone saw him then, and Uche quickly shot to his feet “Doctor, how is she?”
“She is in the recovery, she is one lucky woman, and the bullet missed her heart by inches”
There was a collective cheer
Tessy kept muttering thank God
Uche heaved a sigh of relief “And the baby?”
The whole room was quiet again
“Fared better than the mother I would say, we will move her to a private room as soon as she is up”
“May I see her now” Uche asked.
“Yes briefly, she is still unconscious”
Uche nodded “Thank you Doctor”
The doctor smiled at the young man he had seen grow up “Thank God”

While the family and friends jubilated Uche sat beside his unconscious wife, his heart went out to her, she looked so helpless.
“I will never leave you again, he vowed, I love you with all my heart” he let the tears fall for a time; he knew if she hadn’t survived, he would have died too. He held her hands and held on for dear life.

Hi readers!
I am an ardent fan of when the heart knows! Big kudos to the writer and I love this new idea of hungry hearts

The truth is that right now I am feeling very murderous. If this man calls me again to cry love I swear I will kill him.
My story maybe funny to u but it isn't to me.
I have five friends n we have been friends from primary school, secondary school. We did different university but our bond is strong. The problem is that I am the only unmarried one. Every minute one of my friends is match making me with a guy.
But one day Joy one of the five, showed me a picture of a guy. Joy's husband works in chevron, so the company has just employed a new guy as his boss, an expatriate. Except that this new boss is Nigerian but born and bred in America.
When I saw the picture of the guy I felt I have seen my dream man. He is single and searching.
Fortunately Joy and her husband are hosting him that weekend. The plan was I would come and they will introduce us.
I went shopping for the most brilliant dress, not to showy, not desperate but nice, elegant and simple. I had my hair done, facial and all the rest.
The day came and I was early to help my friend prepare. Me and my friends devised plans on how to get him to the chapel in three months as we prepared the food.
Ten minutes into the party the guy came but he was not alone. He came as my friend quickly explained with his best friend since childhood. But his friend came back to Nigeria some five years and is doing well for himself and bla bla bla. I wasn't listening I only had eyes for my dream man
My friend and her husband began the introduction since his plus one friend was on my left. I had to shake him first. And he said, hi you are pretty, may I have your number.
Readers that was it o! My dream man concluded that his best friend is interested in me and hands off for him. Which kain witch be this. Like joke like joke, his short pot bellied friend pour sand for my garri.
Some time during the party, I had another opportunity to talk to him. When he started telling me how his friend couldn't stop talking about me. I told him straight on that I wasn't interested in his friend. I told him I was actually looking for to seeing him having seen his picture in my friend's phone. He laughed and said my friend saw you first

Since I am a banker, me and friends deviced another plan. I was to market him. He told me he was a little attracted to me, it would have grown if his friend is not in love with me. He told me they have been friends since childhood and he will not allow a woman to come between them no matter how much he wants the woman.
So he wants me hmm! I don't care about his friend. I love him and I need a way to convince him that he should follow his heart and not friendship
Plz readers I need advice before I murder his love sick friend.

Monday 8 December 2014

Hello everyone
Before I start, I want to say that you are a great writer Chioma but please Nma should not die o! It will be pure injustice if she does. The story When the heart knows has gotten me through some very rough part. Thank you.
A year ago I was in the university final year. I met a guy, Ayo, tall dark and handsome and pretty rich. He asked me out but I turned him down because there was no chemistry. Try as much as I could, I could only feel brotherly love for him. The attraction wasn't there for me.
But sometimes he would call me to hang out with him to a joint, fast food etc and I will go, sometime alone, sometimes with my girlfriends. Other times he would buy me gifts or give me money. Most times I am reluctant to accept cos I don't want him and have told him so countless times. I made sure I let him know how I feel. My friends encouraged me to accept his offerings since I have told him my mind and he is still offering. I am not perfect but I read a lot of romance novel so I was waiting for my true love, for that moment when time would stand still as our eyes meet. Anyway I accepted his gifts. Then we took a lot pictures together, in my hostel or when we hang out. We have become more or less friends.
Then I graduated and came back to Lagos and met my true love. We were so in love with each other. He wanted us to get married. There was no girl on earth happier than me.
One day he told me his brother in law was opening his house in Lekki and his whole family were coming. He wants to use the opportunity to introduce me to them.
So we went to Lekki, I was nervous but happy that my relationship was on the right track.
When we got to his sister's house, it turned out that Ayo is his brother. I was surprised, not frightened bcos my conscience was clear. I greeted him jovially and then told my boyfriend how I met him and everything.
Ayo told his brother that I was his ex girlfriend and lover one of his side chicks that was the way he put it. Of course my boyfriend asked me again and I told him the truth.
I didn't know what to do, couldn’t believe what was happening. Then their sister overheard them arguing, before I knew it, the whole family knew the story and I was labeled a slut. His sisters told me that I can't sleep with one brother and marry the other brother. His mother said it was abomination for a man to marry a woman who shared bed with his father or brother. When I tried to defend myself, I was told that since when did girls of this age start caring about attraction, all we need is money n gifts and hanging out to open our legs. The picture we took together said it all, I was Ayo's lover. His sister told me to leave her house.
I don't know  if you been helpless before my situation was helpless. My boyfriend believed his family over me. My boyfriend took my home. All the way From Lekki to magodo I tried to explain., he wouldn't just believe me. As we got closer to my house, I became more desperate and frustrated. I knew it was my last chance to convince him. I called my girlfriends to tell him the truth. They did and he told me, we were all birds of the same feather , of course we defend each other. I did all I could but he remained adamant.
 I should have known I was fighting a lost battle. When we got to my house, I decided to use my body to convince him, to remind him of the love we share. He took what I offered  and left.
I am so broken heart, I can't get over him or the injustice of it. I want him back please how do I convince him that I didn't sleep with his brother.

Please I need your advice



Sunday 7 December 2014

Amber romance

When the heart knows

CHAPTER TWENTY EIGHT



For a moment she was afraid to believe it thinking it was something her dying mind had conjured to lessen the pain.
“Who could that be?” Nma heard the house keeper asking.
She opened her eyes, when she saw their confused and terrified glances towards the door, she believed it. Someone was actually at the door. The Lord had sent someone. She didn’t care who it was as long as the two witches would be stopped. But her relief and hope were short lived.
“Uche has a key he wouldn’t knock.” The house keeper announced.
“I will peep” her daughter volunteered
“Its over, whoever it is would immediately know that something is wrong. Give it up now before it is too late” Nma told her
“It would be too late if you are allowed to live another day” the woman answered
“Be wise, what can you possibly achieve if you end up in prison, give it up and live to complete your mission another day”
“Shut up” the woman pointed the gun at her.
Her daughter came back at that moment.
“Well” she asked her daughter anxiously
“I believe it is her mother, the woman looks exactly like her.
Nma stopped herself from crying out loud. She was not going to let Amber be part of this; if she was going to die then she would do it alone.
“I don’t have a mother” she said quickly, too quickly
“Perhaps a sister” the woman rejoined. “It doesn’t matter who she is but she is getting in the way of the plan and we would eliminate her.
“No” Nma said “If no one opens the door for her, she would think that no one is at home, she will leave”
 The woman considered Nma suggestion for a moment, then she gave her that her evil smile. “This woman whoever she is, she is important to you” she nodded at her daughter.
“Very well I will give you a chance to save her” she turned to her daughter. “Cut off her ropes and lead her to the door” the daughter looked at reluctantly “Do it! If she can get the woman to leave, she would save her but if not, the woman will join the party”
“This is a waste of time” the girl complained “we have the one we want, let the other woman knock to her heart fill and leave”
“What is the use if you cannot enjoy watching the victim suffer, do it now” she said forcefully at the girl. The girl cut Nma's ropes and led her to the door. Nma opened the door with shaky hands
“What do you want?” she said to the woman who gave her life, the woman who might never know that her only daughter forgave her. But that right then didn’t matter, what mattered was passing a message somehow to her to go and get help. She only hoped that Amber was smart enough to get it.
Amber took in her shabby appearance and knew at once that something was wrong.
“Are you alright?” she asked
“What do you care, please leave” she said deliberately showing her hands where it was bruised by the ropes.
Amber saw it immediately and gasped. What was happening, she didn’t know what to think? Could she be fighting with Uche? Uche would never hurt a woman, she thought. Then it dawned on her that her daughter was trying to pass her message. She had to get help.
“I will but sweet heart I am your mother, so I will keep coming till I am sure you have forgiven me” she turned to leave, Nma breathed a sigh of relief but shouted when the house keeper pushed her out of the way and pointed the gun directly at Amber’s back.
“One more step and you are dead”
“Both of you must think I am a fool, passing messages to each other that way.

Meanwhile, Uche sat in his study in Eden castle trying hard to work but couldn’t concentrate. He couldn’t stop thinking about her. He couldn’t believe he was letting her go, he failed, and he hated being a failure. But what more could he have done, she wasn’t happy, he couldn’t keep her chained to him in an unwanted marriage watching her cry herself to sleep every day and night. The fault was entirely his, he thought, he wasn’t a good husband, the way he ignored her. She was young and inexperienced; maybe if he had given her more attention he would have won her over. If He had told her more often he loved her maybe she would have come to believe him. Then suddenly it dawned on him that he hadn’t told her he loved her, not ever since they broke up. Maybe if he told her once more, just maybe hearing him say I love you once more to her would be their saving grace he thought. His head bowed in defeat and confusion.

So Nma was back at the same place as the beginning except that this time she was with her mother. Both of them where tied to two separate chairs. Amber was busy looking around the whole room, the boxes all over the place.
“What is going on here, who are you people?”
“Let me introduce myself, I am Mrs. Ekpo, the house keeper, she is Stacy, my daughter and Uche’s fiancée”
Amber was too shocked to talk and at that point Nma became very angry.
“Uche will never ever marry you, even if you kill me, I assure you that he would never consider it. He doesn’t even know you exist as it is now. So go ahead kill me but you will never get what you want!”
“And I was just coming from her boutique, there are others on their way here, I came early because I wanted some time alone with my daughter, Eva needs some final adjustments to her bridal train and she has been told you are here, so she is on her way here with her fiancée and her mother and they know I came this way too. Whatever you are planning you won’t get away with it”
She saw the woman weighing the situation. “It only means we have to act fast” she said
“It means we think about this deeply before we act” her daughter said
“Yes think about it, what are you going to gain from all these, Uche is a man of the world, he has to keep up appearances. Do you think he would ever consider marrying a mere house keeper’s daughter, how will he introduce you to his friends and business associates?”
“Shut up” Stacy shouted at Amber
Nma watched Amber expertly put fear in them and somehow she knew with that fear the pair would make a mistake that could save their lives.
The girl turned to her mother, her eye blazing “If you had not insisted on savoring all the moment, we would have had this over and done with by now. We wouldn’t have had this complication”
“You are all but a child; can’t you see the way she manipulating us using fear? Do you want to marry Uche?”
“Yes” Stacy answered
“Do you want to be the mistress of all these, travel all over the world, shop at the best boutiques in the world, teach the snobbish Rose and Eva a lesson of their lives and teach Chucks and Stanley never to look through like you are a statue”
 The girl answered yes to all these and the two women watched with wonder as the girl regained her confidence.
“Then let’s do it and when they get here, we can kill them all”
Nma gasped with horror at the event unfolding before her. She cringed with horror and pity for the girl whom the mother had brain washed. She wondered why a mother would deliberately to do that to her daughter.
Amber spoke to her in their native tongue
“I made all that up, no one is coming this way anytime soon, if we are going to stay alive, we are going to do it on our own, any ideas”
The sting of the slap didn’t stop Amber from wanting to get up to slap the woman back. The struggle shattered a glass figurine on the table but the woman pointed the gun at Amber calming her down. Amber picked one of the glasses as she settled down.
“If I hear that rotten language again, I will shoot one of you”
“What are we still waiting for?” Stacy asked
“Don’t worry; my daughter will make Uche a good wife”
Stacy handed her mother a pillow, and she walked slowly to Nma. Put the pillow against her head
“Wait!” Amber said “Before I die I want to say something to my daughter
She turned to Nma “I love you, I always had but your father and I wanted different things and we couldn’t live together, I was unhappy and I meant to leave for a while but your father would have none of that….”
“Mother I have forgiven you. I have waited for years to understand why you left. Now it doesn’t matter anymore. You gave me life, which is so much less than I can say for myself because the child I carry will never have life”
Amber gasped and at that moment the rope she was working on with a piece of glass came loose
“What a sentiment” the woman and pulled the trigger Nma fell on the ground noiselessly. Amber screamed and lunged at the woman the two of them struggled for the gun. Another shot was let out as they struggled.
Uche was turning the keys in the lock when he had the shot, he eased the door open and entered, the sight that greeted him was his house keeper holding a gun over his mother in law and his wife lying on the ground bleeding.
“She is dying; you have to get her to the hospital” amber screamed to no one in particular
The house keeper and Stacy saw him then, they became confused. They were not expecting him “Stay where you are sir or I will finish her up”
“No you won’t mother” Stacy said “This is Uche, the man I love”
Uche wanted to kill the woman with his bare hands, he was so mad but he also knew he had to be cautious. The woman was holding a gun against Nma’s head as she bled unconscious or dead he didn’t know but he prayed
“I said don’t come any closer” the woman made a mistake at last, she trained the gun at Uche and Stacy would have none of that. She made a mad dive for her mother but Uche was faster, some of his marine training came in, he knocked the gun of the woman’s hand and knocked her out with one blow to her head.
“Mother” Stacy called then looking at Uche with fright, but he knocked her out too.
“We need to get her to the hospital, she is not moving, she is not moving… she is” Amber was losing it. While Uche carefully lifted her up and made a run for the door.

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