In my observation valentine day means two things in this country. Gifts and getting laid.
In my own view there is more to valentine than that.
Here are ten ways to spice up your lovers day.
1. Re-enact your first date: for most people, first date are memorable because that is the day most efforts were used to make an impression, to show love and care, to prove the relationship will work or to prove how happy you will make each other.
So by re enacting your first date, it reminds you why you fell in love with each other in the first place.
2. Send a romantic message: it could be a text, or bbm voice but if you really want to be romantic, write a letter, kiss it all over or just where you seal with a red lip stick, spray your perfume on it and send it to him before you meet for valentine celebration.
3. Take a walk: just as the sun turns into a orange bloom or the cloud darkens. Take a stroll holding hands and simply enjoy nature and each other. Make a run for it if rains or snows. Getting physical could put you in that love mood
4. Get a massage: book massage with your partner. While you are lying side by side and relaxing, letting your bodies get pampered, look at each other and let your eyes say how you feel. You may hold hands if you can.
5. Visit the less privileged: you and your partner could spend some time with the orphans, motherless or those in the hospital. Just go with gifts and have fun with them. This may be the time to show him how perfect a family you could be or how good mother you will make, you'd surprised that he will pop the question.
6: look good: don't wait for him to take you shopping on vals day. Take yourself and buy what you are going to wear from sexy red lingerie to the most fabulous attire you can afford. Do your hair and add a touch of red. This is the day to look and feel fabulous as ever.
7. Make it a weekend getaway: it is just perfect that this vals day fell on a weekend, instead of spending the whole time at home like you always do, make it a weekend getaway. Go to a resort or spend a little money and stay in a five star hotel and get that five star treatment. Believe it or not luxury makes romance more exciting.
8. Listen to love song all day: you can do this together (strongly recommended) as the music wafts out from the stereo, look at him/her especially when the song says something you feel deeply. This way you are telling each other how you feel without words. You can do this while sitting quietly together and holding each other or while you are in the kitchen and he is somewhere else..i assure you the lyrics of the song will bring him to you. You can listen to it by yourself while getting ready for your date. It will put you in that romantic mood.
9. Cook her dinner: most men think this is a woman thing or it makes them less manly. But you don't know how romantic a woman feels seeing her man in apron And tinkering about in the kitchen exclusively for her. It makes her feel special. It doesn't matter if you are superb chef or you are so pathetic that you burn the food. She will feel loved, special and extravagantly happy..and you would have achieved your aim.
10. Dance the night away: when I say this, I do not mean to shoki or shake body, I mean to some beautiful love song. Do this at the balcony where the wind will be soft and chilly, or at a bar or restaurant that offers a dance area. Or in your living room
I know most girls will go to work with their overnight bag and then go home to their boyfriends. the weekend is spent just like that on his bed.
Ask for romance, nothing as romantic as dressing up and waiting to be picked up by your date. You will feel like Cinderella waiting for her prince.
It is a day for romance, for love and not lust.
If you are single, don't be left out and don't become desperate to find someone to spend the day with. You will only get laid for nothing. Dress up and go out, go dancing, see movie, eat out. Who knows some lonely single man you might meet.
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Best ever Chioma
Precious Osas, where are you? I miss you girlfriend
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