I know one of the greatest headaches women have daily is how to get the man in their lives to propose. Most times you come down to depths of humility, take trash from him and his family, pamper him and even support his business financially but still no result.
Stop taking trash and follow these steps and please when it works don't forget to invite me to the wedding.
1. Be the Woman Your Man Cannot Resist
Men love women who are confident about themselves. A woman they can trust to stay through thick and thin. Remember, self-confidence is like a magnet that pulls men towards you and makes them surer about their future with you . So, if you are a woman and your guy knows you would let go when the going gets tough, there is no way he is proposing
2. Communicate Regularly
Some women take it for granted that he would propose just because they have been in the relationship for long. They keep waiting for the proposal, even when the man doesn’t know about their anticipation. The best way to avoid unrealistic expectation is to talk to him about your relationship, ask him what his goals are, discuss what you want from your relationship. The truth is that some men don't think of marriage until it is brought up. So, express yourself and gently solidify your stance.
3. Work on the Relationship First
First of all, are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Are you sure you are ready and willing to take your relationship to the next level the way it is presently? Do you know each other so well that it is natural to expect marriage? Men look at marriage as a big commitment. something that they want to be absolutely sure about. Before you get him to propose, please work on the relationship first, address issues you are not comfortable with. Issues that are bothering both of you. Doing this tells him you are committed and in for the long haul. The idea of marriage will begin to sip into his mind.
4. Appreciate Him and His Efforts
If you want to get married to your man, you must learn to appreciate him and his efforts. constantly complaining or faulting his efforts would only make him believe that marriage will be a big mistake with you. Rather, show affection and appreciation for what he does. Men love it when they hear compliments from their women. try to be more supportive and loving to make him understand how much he means to you.
5. Be His Friend
The majority of men fear marriage. They see it as being in bandage. Sometimes you don't blame them because once married they have to put up with too many questions, a lot of nagging and responsibilities they would rather avoid. But you can help them overcome this fear by simply choosing to be a good friend first. If he knows that he can talk to you about his faults without getting judged or criticized, if he knows he can make mistakes and instead of you bringing the whole place down with your ire, that both of you would discuss it and find solutions. he will feel more secure about the relationship and its future. He will also not think about marriage as an imposition. Rather, it will be a logical progression of your relationship.
6. Let Him be the Person He Wants to Be
Regardless of what romance novels tell you, tall, dark and handsome with a bank account to fill an ocean exists only in novels and movies. You also cannot expect your man to be like your friend’s husband, simply because you look up to them as the ‘Perfect Couple’.
accept him for who he is. The more you try to change him, the more suffocating he is going to feel in the relationship and fear any sort of commitment.
Try these tips and see the wonderful turn your relationship will take.
See you at the altar.
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