RELATIONSHIP

RELATIONSHIP

EIGHT TIPS TO A HAPPIER MARRIAGE.

Have you been in that marriage or relationship for a while now and you are beginning to feel unpretty and unattractive? You are no longer the size 10/12 girl he used to know or you catch him looking at prettier, younger, slimmer or more ambitious women and that makes you feel old, ugly and fat? Here are 8 tips to help you feel attractive and keep his interest like forever.

1. BE CLEAN:
so many women after being Married or being in a relationship for a while, begins to become too comfortable with their partner. They don't bath till night, some do in morning but don't at night. Some never remember to wash their hair. Some stop shaving even the most essential parts. Even the house is being neglected or the sheets on the bed yet you want that man to turn to you at night.  He won't and he would be too polite to tell you why. He will say he had long day and is very tired.
2. BE SEXY:
Competition is tight, a lot of young girls outside understand this and you see them buy sexy under wears and lingeries while married ones don't get that no matter how long you've been married you are still in competition with if not other women but your husband's memories of you when you first met. so they take it for granted that they already got the man and don't need to try. That maybe true but wait till your partner meets one of them sexy younger girls. So wear sexy night gown, lace and silk underwear. Do your make up right even when you are at home, even when you don't plan to go anywhere wear beautiful n simple n sexy attires all day long. I promise he won't wait for the kids to go to bed. He would rush home every night. Be what your husband want in bed, and give him your full attention, not even your kids should come into your mind at this stage.  Remember there are girls outside who are more than willing to show him the latest when it comes to sex.
3. BE ROMANTIC:
Romance comes natural to the woman more than the men. So make use of this free gift from above. Take him out for a romantic dinner, when the children are in bed, sit out for a while, drink wine and make small talk. Just enjoy the stars, moon the fresh air and each other. Think of some romantic ways to melt his heart. Wink at him when your eyes meet even if your grown up children are there. Take long strolls. Be romantic!
4. BE FUN:
The truth is that men never grow old. They still remember the fun you used to have when you started dating ages ago and still want it. No wonder they sneak around with girls your age when they first met you. Those young girls are fun. They go clubbing, they hang out at joints with them and to viewing centers. How many married women do you see in such places. Next to none but what about married men? They come with the single girls. Wise up ladies. Having fun must not include children. Most times family picnics with fussy and crying children bore and irritate men. So while you are planning family picnics and fun, plan for something only two of you can do.
5. BE CHEERFUL:
why do most married women keep long faces. Things are hard, you are worried about finances etc. Your long face and sighing is enough to drive him to the bars and into the hands of some woman. No matter how hard things get if your man is trying be that one source of happiness for him by keeping a cheerful face and attitude.
6. BE PEACEFUL: no matter how angry he made you or how trying your day has been. When you open the door for husband at the end of the day, do so with a warm smile. By doing this you are telling him it's okay to come home no matter how mad you are at him. Don't nag, don't be contentious and don't be argumentative. Your relationship needs a measure of peace to survive. If you need to let him know when he is not doing right, do so in a mature and firm conversation. Don't be violent.
7. BE HIS BEST COOK: a man's stomach they say is the easiest way to his heart. This is true. You don't have to be a chef to do this. Learn to be the best cook of all his favorite meals. Make sure that no girl can do it better than you. Be creative with food, learn some new recipes to tempt his pallet.
8. WATCH YOUR WEIGHT: One of the things that give woman complex and make them suspicious of every single girl is when they add weight. They begin to feel inferior to the still shapely single girls. Remember you are in competition, so watch your diet, exercise and loose weight if you have to.

These are not all but these eight tips will put you in the right course. Your marriage is worth fighting for and these are your weapons.

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