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12 SIGNS HE WILL NOT MARRY YOU

So many women go into relationship with the hope that it will lead to marriage. The sad thing is that this hope can be fanned to last several years and still no marriage. Leaving the relationship becomes difficult because they feel they have invested so much into it. Why then didn't they leave the relationship at the initial stage, at the first sign he wouldn’t marry you? This can be attributed to not knowing signs,  And being afraid to take chances. But no more ladies, find out before it becomes too late if he would marry you or not with this ten tips.


1. Waiting for the Right Time-
 It sounds so mature and responsible for your guy to say that he will ask you to marry him as soon as "the time is right,” but this is just another stalling tactic.  Over the years we've heard all of the "it isn't the right time" excuses.  They've ranged from men waiting for that big promotion to one man who wanted his brother to have enough time to grieve after his divorce before he was “forced” to participate in wedding festivities.
People manage to tie the knot during less than perfect circumstances all the time.  Nearly every member of the clergy has a story about a bride or groom who had to hobble down the aisle after breaking a leg or having a serious injury before their wedding.  Remember these couples when you’re evaluating whether his reason for waiting really has any merit
2. An Engagement With No Date Set-
Many men find that presenting a women with a diamond ring is the king of all stalling tactics.   If the man has the financial means, he can often get several years worth of stall time with a large enough diamond. Now those are the classy men, what about those who would present an ordinary cheap ring with no date set.  If you’ve been engaged for more than a few months and you still don’t have a date set, then the odds of you walking down the aisle with this man are slim at best.  The same goes for wedding dates that are set two or more years into the future

3. HE DOES NOT MENTION YOU IN THE FUTURE

When he talks about his future and what he plans on doing, you never seem to show up in there. He never mentions you or having kids. He never says “our” future or what “we” are going to do. He never seems to include you in anything, not even future parties. Hmm…I don’t think he’s thinking about marrying you. Do you?

4. HE DOES NOT TELL YOU HE.LOVES YOU
Usually, “I love you” does not come after marriage, it comes before marriage. If you are in love, then you say that. When people are in love, they get married. Right? Usually. So, if he never says this to you, then it may not be a good sign.

5. A marriage minded man will always be positive about marriage
At any time you raise the issue of marriage, a marriage minded guy will surely speak positive of it as well as other people’s marriage. He will be open to such discussion and how both of you can quickly find ways to get it settled. On the other hand, if he speaks negative of it and condemn other people’s marriage, be sure, he’s not the marrying kind of man you want. If he’s seeing marriage troubles rather than the benefit, he’s not a kind of man that will accept marrying you even though; he may profess it with his mouth. He is never going to be committed and you should just gently find you way and get out of his life before he waste the good part of you

7. Your family affairs
Usually, a man who doesn’t insist on meeting a woman’s parents can usually mean that he doesn’t think that the relationship is serious and going down the marriage road.
He’s only thinking short-term goals with her.
The reason for this is that men, who are not serious about marriage, do not want too many wounded fatalities when it’s time to break it off with you.
Men with sincere intentions would not pass the idea of meeting your family. They wouldn’t be so hesitant to bond with your dad in the living room or make any effort to get along with your siblings.
A man who is head-over heels crazy for a woman he wants to marry will make every effort to be liked by her mother. He’ll even make sure the family dog loves him too.

8. Bachelor’s Pad
If you take a look at the guy’s place and see a stripper pole, a rotating bar in front of a pool table and an open Jacuzzi, then he might not be very ready to give up his bachelor life.
Men are very protective of their freedom. And if your guy keeps you off limits to his place then it’s probably because there’s something, or someone, in there that he doesn’t want you to see

9.He Can’t Make Big Decisions
 His reluctance to marry might not be about you at all. If he can’t decide on, say, what career path he wants to follow or where he wants to live, he probably doesn’t know himself well enough to settle down yet

10. He never owns up in public:
 If he downplays the relationship in front of his friends and family, often referring to you as his ‘good friend’, chances are he isn’t going to stick around for too long.

11. He sleeps during romantic movies:
 Okay, this might not sound all that important but trust me, if he high fives you when the hero leaves the bride-to-be and runs away, it might just be an insight into his marriage psyche.

12.Your dates aren’t serious:
If going out consists of crashing over at his place or renting a movie, chances are he is just having a casual fling. While comfort does tend to take over in a relationship, his lack of effort could point to a bigger issue.

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